And generally speaking, is it important for you to make them c*m?I didn't give a shi+ at that point, I was in it for myself. It was much to my surprise that it flipped her out, but in a good way.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.