"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how do you get the guts?

SELF-MASTERY

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rule #1 stop being a puzzy.

#2 just do it. u gotta get some battle wounbs

#3 dont give a fk about tha outcome; ur self worth can't be tied up to a *****es acceptance.

#4 u are the king of ur world. you are an ok guy, it is the world that is wrong, **** the world if hos dont like your **** them. You can't care.

#5 if shes not friendly, pleasant or doesn't smile-- she doesnt deserve to be in your world. The kingdom of mastery is only for the willing.

#6 learn some gaame from this forum, but dont take it serious. Take breaks from it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SELF-MASTERY

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yo when I need to remind myself of how alpha, dj, are pua I am I do the same, but sometimes my balls are too heavy and it takes the help of a lady friend to lift them. When I see someone i dont like I grab my balls. When hos stare at me I look em in the eye and say "why are you looking at me," then grab mi balls again. Sometimes I feel so alpha and so dj that I think Im growing a third ball..... One last thing, **** an epic life affirming 3 page post, just grab life and your nuts by the balls.
 

So pimp its scary

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I get that alot to... people always askin me why I'm holdin on to my dank. I just say that it wouldn't be very gentlemanly letting it drag on the floor and shyt.
 

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"Rejection is better than regret"

Learn it. Apply it.
 

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I have a lot of things I do.

-Think of a REALLY hot girl which makes the girl I want to approach seem ugly in comparison

-I think of how immense the world is and how little of a deal it is if one average person rejects me

-(This is kinda weird but it works for me) I think of other guys in my family who mack on lots of girls and feel as if I should be doing my PART too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You just have fun , ease into approaching girls and women pleasently . I mean C'mon man , we all know that this lovely hunny bunny , hot chickitta wants someone to approach her and initiate things , she wants to live life , to see the world your building . Treat her as you treat a child man . Don't make it like it is a Do or Die situation . Flow naturally from the inside , Express your genuine feelings , stop thinking , feel that urge , that rush inside to talk with her , captivate on it , be congruent with it , It's so easy man , it feels good also , Enjoy , Enjoy , Enjoy , Stop pressurizing yourself

And Remember that Women are warm water not Ice water as you guys sometimes imagine . They are simple and gorgeous

I'd say make it a habit to approach , talk , date , focus on the consistency first , keep it light then go for the close . still be a man and Act natural ...don't listen to anyone's advice and captivate on this inner feelings , urge , desire .

My regards ,
 
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