"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how do you get the guts?

SELF-MASTERY

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rule #1 stop being a puzzy.

#2 just do it. u gotta get some battle wounbs

#3 dont give a fk about tha outcome; ur self worth can't be tied up to a *****es acceptance.

#4 u are the king of ur world. you are an ok guy, it is the world that is wrong, **** the world if hos dont like your **** them. You can't care.

#5 if shes not friendly, pleasant or doesn't smile-- she doesnt deserve to be in your world. The kingdom of mastery is only for the willing.

#6 learn some gaame from this forum, but dont take it serious. Take breaks from it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yo when I need to remind myself of how alpha, dj, are pua I am I do the same, but sometimes my balls are too heavy and it takes the help of a lady friend to lift them. When I see someone i dont like I grab my balls. When hos stare at me I look em in the eye and say "why are you looking at me," then grab mi balls again. Sometimes I feel so alpha and so dj that I think Im growing a third ball..... One last thing, **** an epic life affirming 3 page post, just grab life and your nuts by the balls.
 

So pimp its scary

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I get that alot to... people always askin me why I'm holdin on to my dank. I just say that it wouldn't be very gentlemanly letting it drag on the floor and shyt.
 

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"Rejection is better than regret"

Learn it. Apply it.
 

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I have a lot of things I do.

-Think of a REALLY hot girl which makes the girl I want to approach seem ugly in comparison

-I think of how immense the world is and how little of a deal it is if one average person rejects me

-(This is kinda weird but it works for me) I think of other guys in my family who mack on lots of girls and feel as if I should be doing my PART too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You just have fun , ease into approaching girls and women pleasently . I mean C'mon man , we all know that this lovely hunny bunny , hot chickitta wants someone to approach her and initiate things , she wants to live life , to see the world your building . Treat her as you treat a child man . Don't make it like it is a Do or Die situation . Flow naturally from the inside , Express your genuine feelings , stop thinking , feel that urge , that rush inside to talk with her , captivate on it , be congruent with it , It's so easy man , it feels good also , Enjoy , Enjoy , Enjoy , Stop pressurizing yourself

And Remember that Women are warm water not Ice water as you guys sometimes imagine . They are simple and gorgeous

I'd say make it a habit to approach , talk , date , focus on the consistency first , keep it light then go for the close . still be a man and Act natural ...don't listen to anyone's advice and captivate on this inner feelings , urge , desire .

My regards ,
 
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