Maximus Optimus
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Any tips on how to get energy to keep up with your kids? Would exercise help with this?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do you get the energy to keep up with your kids?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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RickTheToad
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No kids yet, but how's your health? Are you eating right? Are you exercising?
Diet and exercise. But also mental will. There's a lot of times I feel like sitting on the couch and watching TV due to lack of energy. Mentally, I focus on my investment towards them and what that will yield in the coming years. I want my kids to have a positive role model and be the best they can be. That won't happen with me sitting on my azz and setting a bad example.
I have 11,10,7 yo boys so you know how much of handful they can be.
Once you hit a certain age(it varies by individual), you might find yourself in low energy. Change up your diet and don't be afraid to try different supplements in addition to vitamins.
Also get a testosterone test if you suspect you might be low. That is another source where you might feel low energy.
I have 11,10,7 yo boys so you know how much of handful they can be.
Once you hit a certain age(it varies by individual), you might find yourself in low energy. Change up your diet and don't be afraid to try different supplements in addition to vitamins.
Also get a testosterone test if you suspect you might be low. That is another source where you might feel low energy.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Yes.
No kids myself...
My big brother tho has 3 and he says it makes wonders for him to go to the gym really early in the morning, like 5-6 am before his family wakes up and the whole circus show starts etc. He does some weight training and treadmill running for what I know. Like an hour or so..
I know he says it has help him at lot and it raises his energy levels a great deal.
Kinds can be real pain in the b'utt and energy vampire's sometimes. (If not always lol
)Have them young..... so when your older you don't gotta worry about that shyt. Lol... had my first at 19....then 2nd one at 26.... I'm 43 now. I'm glad now that my ex left me ... my kids pick me over her and I don't gotta worry about toddlers ever again... no young kids was a prerequisite for after my wife left me.... I did my time.. I don't care how pretty the woman is....
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.