Maximus Optimus
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Any tips on how to get energy to keep up with your kids? Would exercise help with this?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How do you get the energy to keep up with your kids?
- Thread starter Maximus Optimus
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
RickTheToad
Moderator
No kids yet, but how's your health? Are you eating right? Are you exercising?
Diet and exercise. But also mental will. There's a lot of times I feel like sitting on the couch and watching TV due to lack of energy. Mentally, I focus on my investment towards them and what that will yield in the coming years. I want my kids to have a positive role model and be the best they can be. That won't happen with me sitting on my azz and setting a bad example.
I have 11,10,7 yo boys so you know how much of handful they can be.
Once you hit a certain age(it varies by individual), you might find yourself in low energy. Change up your diet and don't be afraid to try different supplements in addition to vitamins.
Also get a testosterone test if you suspect you might be low. That is another source where you might feel low energy.
I have 11,10,7 yo boys so you know how much of handful they can be.
Once you hit a certain age(it varies by individual), you might find yourself in low energy. Change up your diet and don't be afraid to try different supplements in addition to vitamins.
Also get a testosterone test if you suspect you might be low. That is another source where you might feel low energy.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Yes.
No kids myself...
My big brother tho has 3 and he says it makes wonders for him to go to the gym really early in the morning, like 5-6 am before his family wakes up and the whole circus show starts etc. He does some weight training and treadmill running for what I know. Like an hour or so..
I know he says it has help him at lot and it raises his energy levels a great deal.
Kinds can be real pain in the b'utt and energy vampire's sometimes. (If not always lol
)Have them young..... so when your older you don't gotta worry about that shyt. Lol... had my first at 19....then 2nd one at 26.... I'm 43 now. I'm glad now that my ex left me ... my kids pick me over her and I don't gotta worry about toddlers ever again... no young kids was a prerequisite for after my wife left me.... I did my time.. I don't care how pretty the woman is....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.