"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
how do you get rid of man boobs?
- Thread starter afrogunso
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
1) keep burning fat. There is absolutely no such thing as fat spot reduction, so if you can get rid of them, you'll eventually lose them with enough exercise/dieting
2) it's gyno, and it will never ever go away without surgery. You should only worry about this if you've already lost significant fat, are fairly cut, but your moobs remain.
That's the gist of it.
The Living Legend
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The people on this board are very dedicated to self-improvement. So while some smaller changes may work to reduce bodyfat (swimming from time to time, etc.), the people at this board would recommend more drastic, all-encompassing steps that will result in a huge lifestyle change. A good example of this would be the info in the DIESEL'S GUIDE TO CUTTING thread stickied to the top of this forum. The information in that thread, however, is just one approach to going about it. You just need to figure out how much you really want it. *eats his lowfat pre-bedtime cottage cheese*
However, like the last poster said, if it's Gyno, it's gotta be surgery. You have to shed the fat to find out.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bad_Lil'Pixie
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Just a suggestion. I used to work with a man that had a feminine "pear" shape body, boobies included. (Wide in the fanny and hips) His father did too.afrogunso said:
His therapist suggested a physical, complete with full blood panel AND thyroid workup. It showed he was overly producing a certain hormone. (I am so sorry, I do not recall the name of the hormone.) It was not a name I'd heard before, both men and women produce it, women at very high rate and men at an extreme low rate.
He began taking a pill everyday and a shot once a week. It took about a year but with his own weight loss program and the hormone treatments, the boobs, hips and fanny all went away. I recall the shots were for 1 year only but the pills were indefinite.
You may need to get in with an "internalist" rather then your primary doctor to have these in-depth tests run, but it may be in your favor.
Bad_Lil'Pixie
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No, silly, it was a really odd name and one I am not sure I recognize. It could have been a clinical term, but I DO know the two detail test they ran to find it.Jimbo2k said:Estrogen?
I did find this while looking for the name: The thyroid gland produces thyroid hormones. These are peptides containing iodine. The two most important hormones are tetraiodothyronine (thyroxine or T4) and triiodothyronine (T3). These hormones are essential for life and have many effects on body metabolism, growth, and development.
Yeah, none of it rang a bell either. Drats..... I HATE when I can't remember something. Oh, well, I still think it worth checking into!
Take care!
At first it will feel awkward, and somewhat stupid, but it really really works. Im 6' tall, and my top weight was 294. After 2 1/2 months Ive lost 35 pounds. Im now at 259 and hoping to reach 220 by christmas. Weight loss can be done much faster than what Im doing, but im taking it kinda easy, I really recommend this program.
Good luck.