I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just a suggestion. I used to work with a man that had a feminine "pear" shape body, boobies included. (Wide in the fanny and hips) His father did too.afrogunso said:how do you get rid of them?
Estrogen?Bad_Lil'Pixie said:It showed he was overly producing a certain hormone. (I am so sorry, I do not recall the name of the hormone.) It was not a name I'd heard before, both men and women produce it, women at very high rate and men at an extreme low rate.
No, silly, it was a really odd name and one I am not sure I recognize. It could have been a clinical term, but I DO know the two detail test they ran to find it.Jimbo2k said:Estrogen?![]()