"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you get rid of back acne?

Beckwith

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Hey guys, I'm 21 and I don't really have a problem at all with facial acne, but I get it fairly bad on my shoulders and upper back. I work out, which I heard can be a source of the problem, but I'm good about showering afterwards and not using the same shirt etc. Any suggestions on products, techniques, etc. that will eliminate this gross problem? I'd rather not have to waste money on a dermitologist... Thanks!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Unbridled_1

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yeah, good question, I for one am tired of trying to squeeze zits on my back.
 

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Salacylic acid.

Pantothenic acid (Vit B5 tabs) at up to 10 grams per day.

Assume you are showering regularly, esp after training.
 

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Try squeezing a zit that's inside of your ear. Damn near impossible. I had to wear that zit for a month before it went down. Also, it seems like when I pop a zit on my face, it clears in a week, but when I pop one on my chest or shoulder, it takes a month before the red mark goes away.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I haven't looked in the mirror, but my back probably looks like a cratered bomb shelter. :D
 

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i dont get pimples anywhere, but i get some on my butt! what causes this and how do you get rid of it?
 

flava

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is it possible to get pimple on ur dik. thats gotta be painful
 

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i go to the drmatologists and she just told me to wash my back and put the same cream that i put on my face on my back. just do the same thing to your back as you would your face
 

payaya

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what cream you using?

cause its strange i only get pimples on my butt! :D is it from my boxer shorts or something???
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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beckwith, how firm is your mattress, if it is firm that couls be the cause, i fould that after sleeping mainly on my right side i got more pimples on the right side of my face, so now i try to stay on my back and change pillow cases often.
 

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Originally posted by steveoo5
beckwith, how firm is your mattress, if it is firm that couls be the cause, i fould that after sleeping mainly on my right side i got more pimples on the right side of my face, so now i try to stay on my back and change pillow cases often.
you got pimples on your right side because of drooling, not how firm the mattress is.
 

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Something extreme would be Nizoral, daily, on your back. But that'd have to be a very last solution..
 

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Try washing with a loofah sponge and using the Neutrogena Body Scrub (notice: Scrub, not the wash) during your showers along with the B5. That helped me.
 
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