I'm thinking about running for Junior Representative this year at band camp, but I'm not exactly sure how to get people to vote for me. I'm not necessarily popular or anything, so I'm going to have to give poeple a good reason to vote for me. So how do I presuade to people to vote for me?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do you get people to vote for you?
- Thread starter MikeViper
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Be charming, charismatic and outgoing...looks like you have a lot of work to do.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
Well first of all one of my girlfriends won the drum major = leader for next year. I helped her in a few ways so let me tell you how she won. First of all everyone pretty much knew her so she was popular in band. Why? because she talked to EVERYONE I mean including the lozer nerds and the ugly fat chicks she talked smiled and was NICE to everyone. Secondly she started to get support EARLY probably 3 weeks before all the other candidates decided to start their campagin. By the time they got to them it was too late everyone pretty much loved the GIRL. The third reason she won is because she's my friend I did some tricks during the voting so she got extra 10. 
Of course noone knows about that but that's besides the point if you want to win fair then you gotta be popular and people have to KNOW YOU. So be friendly outgoing and start talking to ppl if you can't do that I suggest becoming friends with the ppl who count the votes.
Of course noone knows about that but that's besides the point if you want to win fair then you gotta be popular and people have to KNOW YOU. So be friendly outgoing and start talking to ppl if you can't do that I suggest becoming friends with the ppl who count the votes. LOL.PeterNorthisawesome said:Well first of all one of my girlfriends won the drum major = leader for next year. I helped her in a few ways so let me tell you how she won. First of all everyone pretty much knew her so she was popular in band. Why? because she talked to EVERYONE I mean including the lozer nerds and the ugly fat chicks she talked smiled and was NICE to everyone. Secondly she started to get support EARLY probably 3 weeks before all the other candidates decided to start their campagin. By the time they got to them it was too late everyone pretty much loved the GIRL. The third reason she won is because she's my friend I did some tricks during the voting so she got extra 10.
You rigged the vote.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
I don't know what your talking about...Bvbidd said:
well she still won by about 10 votes which is a landslide. I was backup Plan B! So yea it's always good to have a Plan B.PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
No I gave her 3 plus the other 7 wasn't from me so she won by 7.Bvbidd said:
Cool stuff, I won't have 3 weeks to do all of that, but I'll do what I can at the practice the day before we leave for band camp. Basically, I'm going to do what you suggested, talk to everyone, and be optimistic.PeterNorthisawesome said:Well first of all one of my girlfriends won the drum major = leader for next year. I helped her in a few ways so let me tell you how she won. First of all everyone pretty much knew her so she was popular in band. Why? because she talked to EVERYONE I mean including the lozer nerds and the ugly fat chicks she talked smiled and was NICE to everyone. Secondly she started to get support EARLY probably 3 weeks before all the other candidates decided to start their campagin. By the time they got to them it was too late everyone pretty much loved the GIRL. The third reason she won is because she's my friend I did some tricks during the voting so she got extra 10.
habdragon08
Don Juan
write a funny speech
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Also do something to make your speech memorable, but not rely heavily upon the gimmicks. I ran through a banner, leapt into the crowd shoke hands, leapt onto the stage like a pirate and then did my speech (I also knew 1999/2000 people). Being personable is most of the battle, and sadly cannot be done in within 24 hours (providing your group of people is large).
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
ever seen those car commercials...i think for kias...where the guy is there next to a car giving an incredibly inspirtaional sounding speech...and its funny cause its just about a car. haha do that for running for band camp pres or whatever. hahaha.