I'm thinking about running for Junior Representative this year at band camp, but I'm not exactly sure how to get people to vote for me. I'm not necessarily popular or anything, so I'm going to have to give poeple a good reason to vote for me. So how do I presuade to people to vote for me?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How do you get people to vote for you?
- Thread starter MikeViper
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Be charming, charismatic and outgoing...looks like you have a lot of work to do.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
Well first of all one of my girlfriends won the drum major = leader for next year. I helped her in a few ways so let me tell you how she won. First of all everyone pretty much knew her so she was popular in band. Why? because she talked to EVERYONE I mean including the lozer nerds and the ugly fat chicks she talked smiled and was NICE to everyone. Secondly she started to get support EARLY probably 3 weeks before all the other candidates decided to start their campagin. By the time they got to them it was too late everyone pretty much loved the GIRL. The third reason she won is because she's my friend I did some tricks during the voting so she got extra 10. 
Of course noone knows about that but that's besides the point if you want to win fair then you gotta be popular and people have to KNOW YOU. So be friendly outgoing and start talking to ppl if you can't do that I suggest becoming friends with the ppl who count the votes.
Of course noone knows about that but that's besides the point if you want to win fair then you gotta be popular and people have to KNOW YOU. So be friendly outgoing and start talking to ppl if you can't do that I suggest becoming friends with the ppl who count the votes. LOL.PeterNorthisawesome said:Well first of all one of my girlfriends won the drum major = leader for next year. I helped her in a few ways so let me tell you how she won. First of all everyone pretty much knew her so she was popular in band. Why? because she talked to EVERYONE I mean including the lozer nerds and the ugly fat chicks she talked smiled and was NICE to everyone. Secondly she started to get support EARLY probably 3 weeks before all the other candidates decided to start their campagin. By the time they got to them it was too late everyone pretty much loved the GIRL. The third reason she won is because she's my friend I did some tricks during the voting so she got extra 10.
You rigged the vote.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
I don't know what your talking about...Bvbidd said:
well she still won by about 10 votes which is a landslide. I was backup Plan B! So yea it's always good to have a Plan B.PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
No I gave her 3 plus the other 7 wasn't from me so she won by 7.Bvbidd said:
Cool stuff, I won't have 3 weeks to do all of that, but I'll do what I can at the practice the day before we leave for band camp. Basically, I'm going to do what you suggested, talk to everyone, and be optimistic.PeterNorthisawesome said:Well first of all one of my girlfriends won the drum major = leader for next year. I helped her in a few ways so let me tell you how she won. First of all everyone pretty much knew her so she was popular in band. Why? because she talked to EVERYONE I mean including the lozer nerds and the ugly fat chicks she talked smiled and was NICE to everyone. Secondly she started to get support EARLY probably 3 weeks before all the other candidates decided to start their campagin. By the time they got to them it was too late everyone pretty much loved the GIRL. The third reason she won is because she's my friend I did some tricks during the voting so she got extra 10.
habdragon08
Don Juan
write a funny speech
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Also do something to make your speech memorable, but not rely heavily upon the gimmicks. I ran through a banner, leapt into the crowd shoke hands, leapt onto the stage like a pirate and then did my speech (I also knew 1999/2000 people). Being personable is most of the battle, and sadly cannot be done in within 24 hours (providing your group of people is large).
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
ever seen those car commercials...i think for kias...where the guy is there next to a car giving an incredibly inspirtaional sounding speech...and its funny cause its just about a car. haha do that for running for band camp pres or whatever. hahaha.