"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you get over a female?

Alpine

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If you want to get her back....


1) Forget her

2) Find someone else you fancy and shag them

3) Make sure she indirectly finds out about it.

4) Repeat process until a) she comes back b) you don't give a sh1t.



Either way this solves your problem, now as you think about it this way, you can't lose can you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by JCKey618
You all are right.

And the girl I have now is better. She's 17, btw. She's not my girlfriend, though. Nothing official. We're just dating and the physical part is coming along nicely :-D

Besides, college is soon....
This guy just might make it after all.
 

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This is kinda a late post on the subject, but JCKey618 i have some advice for you. You need to cut off everything from this girl and just look forward. She disrepects you so bad its not even funny. You need to respect yourself before any girl is going to respect you. You say you have a new girl in your life. I say dump her and just focus on yourself. dumping her will make you feel better.

Reading about "lauren" gets me pumped up. She seems like the most immature lil slut there is. You had your fun with her, you used her up, think of her as being dead because in your case she might as well be.

I cant see how you have these fights with her and her boyfriend. How do you even have enough energy to even care about a girl you are no longer seeing? Its plan old weird dude. She is acting like such a baby putting up that away message "i ****ing right now"? You should have either ignored that, blocked her or instead of saying "thats nasty", said lauren get some class. She has no class and seems like white trash if you ask me.

Dont let this child that you once dated bring you down man. Grow a pair of balls. Also that guy bryan or whatever the hell is his is sounds like a piece of shyt. The way he talked to you......i would have went over to her house and called him out. You'll see how fast he's act would change in person.

You have been handling the situation wrong.....dont act jealous or get into fights with her...just be thankful the relationship and over and find yourself a normal girl. Lauren sounds like a mental case.

dont ever try to get back with her....she sounds like a real dirty pig. You should get tested also....because she probably cheated on you in ur 18 months of dating, thats not even a long time bro.

Good luck with the whole situation and feel better man

-John
 

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I just found out that she cheated on me. Had sex with the dude 2 weeks before we broke up. Man, she was my first. My first cheated on me. Fvcking *****.

But, it's cool. I always used protection with her. Oh, and btw, when I found out today, yeah, I got mad. I think I have a right to be. Unlike if they are having sex right now, it is my business if they did it while we were still together. I had a chance to confront them, but I left it alone. I made my last trip up to the school today to pick up my diploma (we all hae to go and get them from the school) and now I really don't have to see her again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by JCKey618


, it is my business if they did it while we were still together.
do you really care?
what difference will it make?
shes still gone and now you can say good riddence.
let this one go .
 

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God, man. I wish I would have known about her cheating before it ended. All the **** she put me through, making me feel bad for saying that her and bryan were spending so much time together. Making me the bad guy cis 'i didn't trust her.' How can I EVER trust a female again? I trusted Lauren with all my heart....

I want her to know that I know and how much I hate her right now.

Yes, I am mad. But it's going away. I'm feeling better. Spent a little bit of time with Morgan today and I feel better (didn't tell her about it of course, i don't talk about my ex with her).
 

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trust me , let it go.
that anger is no good!
dont be getting all bitter either.
just let it go jc.
 

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personally when im feeling sorry for myself i look at websites that show people with facial disfigurements,or various handicaps and it reminds me how lucky i am,remember to ask how to questions and not why,best wishes
 

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just remeber that her ***** is now dirty with another c0ck. Also try to imagine that there have been several other c0cks in her mouth since yours.

Do you really want to kiss her cumshot filled mouth now?

no.. I didn't think so.

move on. learn what it means to be a man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you really want to kiss her cumshot filled mouth now?
lmao

I want her to know that I know and how much I hate her right now.
she'll catch the point of how much you hate her by ignoring her.......i wouldnt say another word to this girl ever again. Shes not worth your time.

you are graduating college or high school?
 
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