"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do YOU get girls?

Primary method that you've met the girls you've sexed?

  • Cold Approach (Street, markets, stores etc)

    Votes: 3 7.7%
  • Met through a friend (Your social network)

    Votes: 16 41.0%
  • Dating Website (Match, eHarmony etc)

    Votes: 3 7.7%
  • Social Network site (Myspace, Facebook)

    Votes: 2 5.1%
  • Met at school (In class)

    Votes: 2 5.1%
  • Met at school (outside of class)

    Votes: 2 5.1%
  • Club pickup

    Votes: 3 7.7%
  • Party hookup

    Votes: 6 15.4%
  • Other (please explain)

    Votes: 2 5.1%

  • Total voters
    39

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Master Don Juan
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Poonani Maker said:
other - work; When a woman sees me working, she wants me.
wouldnt this be under social networking also? cuz thats what I voted for.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The 10th option of not getting girls should be added, I think that's the most popular one.

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They approached me, I have never approached.
I have only been with 3 chicks, so that isn't working out too well for me.
I need to fix this at some stage.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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magnet7 said:
Hmm, let me guess......you're either a physical trainer or a construction worker....am I right?

Either way, that's cool, just don't fvck girls who you work with, that messes things up bad :(
nope. Something better. The ideal job for having chicks fawn all over you. In a sense, you're their sense of joy for the day when they see you.
 
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