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How do you get girls to hug you?

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So I've seen guys who have girls come up to them and hug them. What can i do to get girls to do this to me?
 

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Well you usually have a somewhat good "talking-basis" relationship or somethign with them. And I mean besides the obvious "Hey gimme a hug" ... i gues sif you wanted to be slick or something you could say something and feel sorry and say "Awwww" and get a hug... But I get hugs from girls everyday in between classes as a way of saying hi... lol just go and hug her ... its not like your gonna get rejected ?
 
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why do you want girls to just hug you? Its worthless. (unless someone wants to make some ****ty "social proof" argument that probably won't hold water)
 
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The Forms said:
why do you want girls to just hug you? Its worthless. (unless someone wants to make some ****ty "social proof" argument that probably won't hold water)
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exactly. i had girls hug me, and it really does nothing for social proof. it's just a way of saying hi, and is generally worthless
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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well..

A hug, for girls, is like a handshake for men. Don't get hung up on it, it's just a hug. If you're hellbent on a hug, just walk up to a chick and hug her. Easy. What could happen?
 
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Oh dear. Go read the bible.
 
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