"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you get girls to hug you?

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angelz

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So I've seen guys who have girls come up to them and hug them. What can i do to get girls to do this to me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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muzicfreak2k3

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Well you usually have a somewhat good "talking-basis" relationship or somethign with them. And I mean besides the obvious "Hey gimme a hug" ... i gues sif you wanted to be slick or something you could say something and feel sorry and say "Awwww" and get a hug... But I get hugs from girls everyday in between classes as a way of saying hi... lol just go and hug her ... its not like your gonna get rejected ?
 

The Forms

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why do you want girls to just hug you? Its worthless. (unless someone wants to make some ****ty "social proof" argument that probably won't hold water)
 

Raikojo17

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The Forms said:
why do you want girls to just hug you? Its worthless. (unless someone wants to make some ****ty "social proof" argument that probably won't hold water)
exactly. i had girls hug me, and it really does nothing for social proof. it's just a way of saying hi, and is generally worthless
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DontQuitYet

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well..

A hug, for girls, is like a handshake for men. Don't get hung up on it, it's just a hug. If you're hellbent on a hug, just walk up to a chick and hug her. Easy. What could happen?
 

Vincent

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Oh dear. Go read the bible.
 
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