"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you get a girl to be interested in you rather than you showing interest?

BannedGod

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I don't really understand well that concept. I guess it sorts of come naturally, but I still don't understand. Is it related to the thing about not putting a girl on a pedestal, and treating her like you would with a friend while flirting with her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MyOwnKryptonite

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what you want to do is make sure she knows that your interested, then once thats established you want to stand down, wait for her to respond. Then depending on how she responds, dont keep bombarding here with compliments and things like that, joke around playfully with her, make jokes about her, but make sure you come off not serious about them. Its ganna be a push pull kind of thing
 

edmond

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Be different than the herd.

Be different than the herd.
Do not grovel.
Be friendly, but no too friendly.
Be very clean, manicure nails, trim hair from ears, nose, etc...
Take care of your body, by doing proper exercisers, so you look balanced, unlike the majority of the guys who are top heavy.
Wear clothes that look good on you.
Good posture.
 
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