"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you get a girl to be interested in you rather than you showing interest?

BannedGod

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I don't really understand well that concept. I guess it sorts of come naturally, but I still don't understand. Is it related to the thing about not putting a girl on a pedestal, and treating her like you would with a friend while flirting with her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MyOwnKryptonite

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what you want to do is make sure she knows that your interested, then once thats established you want to stand down, wait for her to respond. Then depending on how she responds, dont keep bombarding here with compliments and things like that, joke around playfully with her, make jokes about her, but make sure you come off not serious about them. Its ganna be a push pull kind of thing
 

edmond

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Be different than the herd.

Be different than the herd.
Do not grovel.
Be friendly, but no too friendly.
Be very clean, manicure nails, trim hair from ears, nose, etc...
Take care of your body, by doing proper exercisers, so you look balanced, unlike the majority of the guys who are top heavy.
Wear clothes that look good on you.
Good posture.
 
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