"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't really understand well that concept. I guess it sorts of come naturally, but I still don't understand. Is it related to the thing about not putting a girl on a pedestal, and treating her like you would with a friend while flirting with her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what you want to do is make sure she knows that your interested, then once thats established you want to stand down, wait for her to respond. Then depending on how she responds, dont keep bombarding here with compliments and things like that, joke around playfully with her, make jokes about her, but make sure you come off not serious about them. Its ganna be a push pull kind of thing
 
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Be different than the herd.

Be different than the herd.
Do not grovel.
Be friendly, but no too friendly.
Be very clean, manicure nails, trim hair from ears, nose, etc...
Take care of your body, by doing proper exercisers, so you look balanced, unlike the majority of the guys who are top heavy.
Wear clothes that look good on you.
Good posture.
 
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