"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do you get a girl to accept your polygamy?

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I've read about Mystery and David D and all these guys having multiple girlfriends and them (obviously not there ideal choice)accepting that he will have other girls too...
hypothetically, say if you were to dump your girlfriend for lying, and she came crawling back, how would you get her to accept that you will only get back with her if you can see other women aswell?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tadhgire said:
I've read about Mystery and David D and all these guys having multiple girlfriends and them (obviously not there ideal choice)accepting that he will have other girls too...
hypothetically, say if you were to dump your girlfriend for lying, and she came crawling back, how would you get her to accept that you will only get back with her if you can see other women aswell?
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You either tell her upfront or you say nothing until she asks if you're seeing anyone. Then you say, "I am, and I suggest you do the same"
 
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The only way she will prolly go with that contract is if u beat that ***** up REALLLLY GOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
 
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tadhgire said:
I've read about Mystery and David D and all these guys having multiple girlfriends and them (obviously not there ideal choice)accepting that he will have other girls too...
hypothetically, say if you were to dump your girlfriend for lying, and she came crawling back, how would you get her to accept that you will only get back with her if you can see other women aswell?
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What's up tadhire?

The best thing to do is not tell girls you are seeing other girls. That's ONLY if you aren't in a committed closed relationship. If I'm not in a relationship other girls are none of her business.

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High status males in every society have access to multiple women. Become rich, famous, or a politician.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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exactly! A girl would only accept this situation from a guy with a far higher status than her.
 
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just out of curiosity... is looking like a farm animal a compliment? never heard that one
 
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If she actually likes you ...you won't be able to.

Eventually she will start ****ing up..even the ones you think are "cool" with the situation.

Just play it stupid and say you got "freinds that just happen to be women..".Thats why im trynna cut back on dealing with women i would never want a relationship with...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bonhomme

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High status males in every society have access to multiple women. Become rich, famous, or a politician.
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LOL. One caveat, though: don't sell yourself short by restricting your notions of what makes for high status: there are many ways to have high status, even if you're poor and far from famous ...
 
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