"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you get a girl to accept your polygamy?

tadhgire

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I've read about Mystery and David D and all these guys having multiple girlfriends and them (obviously not there ideal choice)accepting that he will have other girls too...
hypothetically, say if you were to dump your girlfriend for lying, and she came crawling back, how would you get her to accept that you will only get back with her if you can see other women aswell?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jestor

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tadhgire said:
I've read about Mystery and David D and all these guys having multiple girlfriends and them (obviously not there ideal choice)accepting that he will have other girls too...
hypothetically, say if you were to dump your girlfriend for lying, and she came crawling back, how would you get her to accept that you will only get back with her if you can see other women aswell?
You either tell her upfront or you say nothing until she asks if you're seeing anyone. Then you say, "I am, and I suggest you do the same"
 

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The only way she will prolly go with that contract is if u beat that ***** up REALLLLY GOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
 

JLance

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tadhgire said:
I've read about Mystery and David D and all these guys having multiple girlfriends and them (obviously not there ideal choice)accepting that he will have other girls too...
hypothetically, say if you were to dump your girlfriend for lying, and she came crawling back, how would you get her to accept that you will only get back with her if you can see other women aswell?
What's up tadhire?

The best thing to do is not tell girls you are seeing other girls. That's ONLY if you aren't in a committed closed relationship. If I'm not in a relationship other girls are none of her business.

JLance
 

STR8UP

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High status males in every society have access to multiple women. Become rich, famous, or a politician.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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vorbis

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exactly! A girl would only accept this situation from a guy with a far higher status than her.
 

backbreaker

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just out of curiosity... is looking like a farm animal a compliment? never heard that one
 

Tha Realnezz

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If she actually likes you ...you won't be able to.

Eventually she will start ****ing up..even the ones you think are "cool" with the situation.

Just play it stupid and say you got "freinds that just happen to be women..".Thats why im trynna cut back on dealing with women i would never want a relationship with...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bonhomme

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High status males in every society have access to multiple women. Become rich, famous, or a politician.
LOL. One caveat, though: don't sell yourself short by restricting your notions of what makes for high status: there are many ways to have high status, even if you're poor and far from famous ...
 
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