"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you get a girl to accept your polygamy?

tadhgire

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I've read about Mystery and David D and all these guys having multiple girlfriends and them (obviously not there ideal choice)accepting that he will have other girls too...
hypothetically, say if you were to dump your girlfriend for lying, and she came crawling back, how would you get her to accept that you will only get back with her if you can see other women aswell?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jestor

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tadhgire said:
I've read about Mystery and David D and all these guys having multiple girlfriends and them (obviously not there ideal choice)accepting that he will have other girls too...
hypothetically, say if you were to dump your girlfriend for lying, and she came crawling back, how would you get her to accept that you will only get back with her if you can see other women aswell?
You either tell her upfront or you say nothing until she asks if you're seeing anyone. Then you say, "I am, and I suggest you do the same"
 

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The only way she will prolly go with that contract is if u beat that ***** up REALLLLY GOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
 

JLance

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tadhgire said:
I've read about Mystery and David D and all these guys having multiple girlfriends and them (obviously not there ideal choice)accepting that he will have other girls too...
hypothetically, say if you were to dump your girlfriend for lying, and she came crawling back, how would you get her to accept that you will only get back with her if you can see other women aswell?
What's up tadhire?

The best thing to do is not tell girls you are seeing other girls. That's ONLY if you aren't in a committed closed relationship. If I'm not in a relationship other girls are none of her business.

JLance
 

STR8UP

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High status males in every society have access to multiple women. Become rich, famous, or a politician.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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vorbis

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exactly! A girl would only accept this situation from a guy with a far higher status than her.
 

backbreaker

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just out of curiosity... is looking like a farm animal a compliment? never heard that one
 

Tha Realnezz

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If she actually likes you ...you won't be able to.

Eventually she will start ****ing up..even the ones you think are "cool" with the situation.

Just play it stupid and say you got "freinds that just happen to be women..".Thats why im trynna cut back on dealing with women i would never want a relationship with...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bonhomme

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High status males in every society have access to multiple women. Become rich, famous, or a politician.
LOL. One caveat, though: don't sell yourself short by restricting your notions of what makes for high status: there are many ways to have high status, even if you're poor and far from famous ...
 
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