Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
THIS! A while back a girl who had plenty of 100's of picture likes and plenty of followers, many who were better looking than me took a real liking to me. It never worked out but after I asked her what attracted her to me. Her answer was because I didn't act like a total faggot showering her with compliments all the time like the others and just treat her like she was a normal lass and I was actually above her. Weird but I guess females love the alpha male.Zerro said:
How do you destroy that damn pedestle judge nimso?nismo-4 said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SamTheHobit said:
Easy, view her as average, remember that no pu$$y is golden, don't put her on a pedestal, bust on her (joke about her hair, purse etc.) and frame yourself as the prize. Be sexual from the get go and don't be scared to take risks for escalation. Even after all of this, she'll either like you or spike you. If you're spiked, just move on. Regardless, doing this is better than being a Facebook e-orbiter chump that read 5 pages of PUA and hit on her.SamTheHobit said:
