Hey just a recap of my situation. I'm a third year college student who just got back from a semester abroad. The one thing I have always found very difficult at my school is finding guys to go out with at night. I never had this problem when I was studying abroad, but I go to a rather prestigious school and everyone is very consumed with themselves and their studies to really spend much time going out. I get frustrated with this because I always wanted to do more than schoolwork and it's weird showing up to a bar or club solo. Plus I believe being able to talk someone into going out who doesn't really want to is a great way to demonstrate alpha male status. Is there any good method to motivate people to go out and try to meet people/girls and have a good time?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do you find guys to go out with?
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