How do you find guys to go out with?

[Sam Adams]

Hey just a recap of my situation. I'm a third year college student who just got back from a semester abroad. The one thing I have always found very difficult at my school is finding guys to go out with at night. I never had this problem when I was studying abroad, but I go to a rather prestigious school and everyone is very consumed with themselves and their studies to really spend much time going out. I get frustrated with this because I always wanted to do more than schoolwork and it's weird showing up to a bar or club solo. Plus I believe being able to talk someone into going out who doesn't really want to is a great way to demonstrate alpha male status. Is there any good method to motivate people to go out and try to meet people/girls and have a good time?

 

[Stéphane]

Just go to the club alone, that demonstrates alpha male status more then anything. It take guts, and balls of steel. Last night I went to the club solo, just read my journal to see what happened.

 

[I'mBETTERthanMYSTreY]

:kick: :kick: :flowers: bro, I have yet to go out to a club alone it would feel wierd especially at a black club, like the ones I be going too. But yeah I get butterflies just thinking about goin out there alone. But what I would do if I went alone is I would hop into a set at the bar almost as soon as I walk in. Then I'd peep out a target to talk too next if that set fails ( which doesn't happen to me alot) and I'd go for F-closes. But don't sit at the bar alone for too long...lol. Thats the problem with going alon is you don't have anyone to touch base with when your not in sets.

 

[Stéphane]

Yeah, I admit it's funner to go clubbing with friends, but if you got no other option clubbing alone can be great too. Look at my last entry in my journal I was able to meet some people, and sleep at there place, and now I made some new friends.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136059