Hey just a recap of my situation. I'm a third year college student who just got back from a semester abroad. The one thing I have always found very difficult at my school is finding guys to go out with at night. I never had this problem when I was studying abroad, but I go to a rather prestigious school and everyone is very consumed with themselves and their studies to really spend much time going out. I get frustrated with this because I always wanted to do more than schoolwork and it's weird showing up to a bar or club solo. Plus I believe being able to talk someone into going out who doesn't really want to is a great way to demonstrate alpha male status. Is there any good method to motivate people to go out and try to meet people/girls and have a good time?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How do you find guys to go out with?
- Thread starter Sam Adams
- Start date