How do you exactly text?

[Jokerlsk]

Guys, i know how to text, I'm not retarded, but how can you be ****y and funny through text messages? this one girl gave me her number and told me to text her 2 days ago, and i've decided i would go ahead and do it

 

[I'm in the Mood]

U could just call her or say whatever u want in a text msg.
I think you don't wanna waste your time though thinking about how to use C+F over this type of non-verbal communication.

Text her a joke or something, be yourself.

 

[Five To One]

Unless she knows your personality, shes not going to pick up on ****y and funny or sarcasim or anything other than exactly what you text her.

Thats why many look down apon it.

 

[TheEnergizer]

yeah just text how you would normally talk if your not ****y/funny in person don't try to be over text messages, if you are then it should be natural anyway

 

[f283000]

dude are you FN kidding me? you want us to teach you how to text? here let me answer your question with 1 simple answer

DON'T TEXT!!!! if you want to be a woman's friend you text her, if you want to be her lover you FN talk to her face to face, got it?

texting, myspace, emails, these are ways you get into the friend zone. Sure you can send her a couple texts....TO SET UP A DATE SOON AFTER YOU MEET HER! if you do well and shes your gf than thats the end of txting.

other than that text messaging should be kept for friends, not girls you're trying to dig out.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Yeah, i am ****y and funny, which is the reason this girl wants to talk to me in the first place. She actually gave me her number w.o me asking through facebook. It was really random, but w.e. She's hot so..... hahaha.
Anyways.... i've posted this in another thread, and this girl is a freshman, i'm a sophomore btw. She sits w/ two of my freshman friends, and I joke w/ her when i'm talking to them. Apparently she likes me or something, so i'm fine with that. I just don't want to mess this up like i have the other 1000000000 times i have w/ girls. I hope to God i don't get LJBF........... again..
Thanks for the advice. A bunch of the guys she sits w/ are ****y freshman A**holes, so i don't feel like sitting w/ her. How exactly should i approach her?

 

[I'm in the Mood]

I assume you're talking about lunch, well you can probably ask her to sit with you, just you, so that you have her full attention at this time.
That's what I'd do at least.

The one thing you don't wanna do is start anything around her. If you sit with her and the ****y freshman you should make sure you act mature and show her that you're clearly above the level of those other kids.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Hahaha well, I don't want to make it seem to obvious man. I think she likes me because i don't shower her w/ attention. I think i'll just make her sit w/ my and my bros haha.

 

[jeffthechef]

Hahaha well, I don't want to make it seem to obvious man. I think she likes me because i don't shower her w/ attention. I think i'll just make her sit w/ my and my bros haha.

you want to make it obvious...you want her to know you're interested which gives her the opportunity to tell you indirectly whether or not she's interested...
the best way is to work it for a week or two..not too long..and then ask her out somewhere on the weekend alone..not a date necessarily but out..only you two..if she says yes..game...if she says no...game over...if she's busy and reschedules..game...if not game over..

that simple..you don't want to make it obviuos because you fear what others may think and your social status..you fear people will find out and hassle you about it..you probably get embarrased...this is simply my analysis because it's often if not always the only reason...OR perhaps you fear rejection..which is pointless...i could get deep but not in this post..if you would like.respond...good luck :crazy:

 

[Jokerlsk]

Yeah, well i'm sick today, so no school. I guess I'll do what you told me to do Jeff. I don't get embarassed very easily, but I am afraid of rejection........

 

[Lust]

dude are you FN kidding me? you want us to teach you how to text? here let me answer your question with 1 simple answer

DON'T TEXT!!!! if you want to be a woman's friend you text her, if you want to be her lover you FN talk to her face to face, got it?

texting, myspace, emails, these are ways you get into the friend zone. Sure you can send her a couple texts....TO SET UP A DATE SOON AFTER YOU MEET HER! if you do well and shes your gf than thats the end of txting.

other than that text messaging should be kept for friends, not girls you're trying to dig out.

Fail. Don't post misinformation.

I've gotten plenty of chicks over MySpace, Facebook, and I text all the time.

Actually, I'd text more often than call, because I Don't want to give her too much of my time, so a simple text keeps her thinking about me with minimal effort.

 

[jeffthechef]

why fear rejection...
everyone is an imitation of others..and everyone is interconnected
you grew up imitating what you saw and experienced from your parents or guardians...your siblings...friends..teachers...everyone you've intereacted with in any of your senses...raise a boy with gorillas...he'll becomes just like them...for her to reject you means that she is rejecting the part of her she doesn't like...and so essentially you're simply not what she wants..nothing wrong with that..if you're an alpha...have good morals..and enjoy life...and she rejects you knowing that (EXPRESS YOURSELF)..if she knows all that and rejects you...you're chasing the wrong ice cream truck...
it's never you, it's her...BUT it is you to an extent that is totally under your control