"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do you exactly bed a ONS? :(

j8snx1

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alright, so how exactly do you get a 'friend', particularly a one-night-stand type of a girl, to bed?

I know of a HB8 and shes been one hell of a flirt (most of the time) in class and what not.

Today she asks me how to fix something, and outta the C&F attitude, i said
"Well, first you take me out for a great time, then you go on settings and change this and that" (within that ball park, its becoming a blur all of a sudden)

so then she points out "are you asking me out on a date?"

i reply "no, but im suggesting it ;)"
she goes "oohhh ok. how about you take me out?"

then she runs off to pee and i 4got to get back to the chick.

anyway, i think i got myself a plan here, but the only question is, im not sure how to bed an "all around the neighborhood" type of girl. I think other posts before this have said that I should be really flirty and talk about sex a lot, but other than that im not quite sure, and i'd like some information and feedback on this situation while i search some more! Thanks!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was about to say "Take her out for a drink, get her a little tipsy, lots of kino, lots of c+f (DONT TALK ABOUT SEX! unless it is in a c+f way) and take her back to yours and bang the living daylight out of her...

BUT...

I just noticed that you are 18 and live in the U.S.

So going to a bar might be a problem...

So...

PLAN B

Just invite her back to yours for a movie. Again, stick to the kino, c+f and take it from there.

Look up Mystery's freeze-out method, incase you get any last minute resistance.

Good luck.
 

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A friend, don't do this to a friend... this must be with a 'fresh' girl... I'm assuming you are at a bar.

Now, you start talking to the girl I like to start when the girl is alone and looking around, if she doesn't look upset, she's quite likely hunting. Now, you are either in right awa, or you are out. Now, if and when her friends come, shift your focus to the friends... they will approve or dissapprove based on the target.

Eventually, you have to pull her to the dancefloor... start dancing as a group... then just move in and get as close as the girl will let you, If she lets you grind you're probly in for the next step. Go for the kiss, if you don't get the kiss you might as well start over.

If she kisses you stop and pull back just a lil too soon, if she comes toward you afterthe kiss you are in. Take her around the bar... especially solo ask if she'd like to come to a 'party' wiith you and some close friends, if she wants to keep things going.

Once you are back at the party, have some conversation and give her another kiss, for a bit longer this time, touching her sides under her arm, then go for seclusion, and onto a bed... heavy making out, then stop and smell her all around her chest for a few minutes, then go back to kissing, put your hand somewhere under her shirt without lifting it off... if she takes ANY of your clothes off hope you have a jimmy handy. Whatever the case when she puts up a bit of resistance... short of a straight up 'no not happening' you'll have to over come that on a case to case basis... alot of the time by stopping and just smelling her somemore.
 
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