how do you escape giving ultimatums?

[cNfny]

i've read people who are offered ultimatums usually take the less resistant way out, for example..

bf - if you see that guy tonight then we are done!
gf - that's easy, bye.

maybe a bad example? haha but none the less, i think this is a trouble spot for some people to PROPERLY word what they want WITHOUT sounding like the recepient needs to make a final decision.

inputs, hints, tips would be great. thanks.

 

[Bvbidd]

This is why you don't get a girlfriend if your jealous.

Ultimatums are a turn-off.

When you do them you reveal yourself as unfun.

 

[cNfny]

This is why you don't get a girlfriend if your jealous.

Ultimatums are a turn-off.

When you do them you reveal yourself as unfun.

so how would you go about it? if you were suspicious of a gf?

 

[sav]

so how would you go about it? if you were suspicious of a gf?

why be together in the first place? jealousy is a weakness, suspicion with cause is not jealousy...

 

[cNfny]

i'm just asking for future reference. to avoid past AFC decisions/moves.

any tips?

 

[Ostepop]

i'm just asking for future reference. to avoid past AFC decisions/moves.

any tips?

If you feel that you cannot trust your gf, dump her. (You may still ***' her whenever you like thought)

If you feel that you CAN trust your gf, dont ask ultimatums.

Its as easy as that

 

[Bvbidd]

IMO you can NEVER trust your gf, so if your a jealous guy it's best not to have one.