went out with a 19 year old (im 25) first time i went out with a girl so young and outta my age range. During our conversations I tried my best to avoid silent moments but everytime I asked her a question she would answer with short, vague answers which did not leave me the opportunity for follow up questions to keep her talking. So it was really hard to try to make a connection with her and even kino her because of her short answers i felt she was showing me low interest level thus i was weary about too much kino/escalating. She not once touched me or even flirted with me. She went out with me the first time I asked and agreed to go out with me again so she has accepted everytime i asked which shows she is interested but...
So i'm just wondering. When i told a friend about my date he told me this is expected since young girls don't know how to communicate yet and hold conversations like adults and don't care about anybody but themselves (which is why she didn't even ask me a question). So her behavior was not a statement of her interest level of me. Not only that he told me that they are not attuned to their sexuality yet so they won't flirt/make any moves.
I just wanted to get confirmation from you guys on the above or maybe it was just her? she did mention her weight to me and how she wanted to lose 10 pounts (showing he has low self steam) and mentioned during out txt conversations before our date how it takes her time to show affection. Any tips on how to escalate to kissing with this girl on my second date or any other tips if she will just not show me any sexual signals or show that much interest level.
So i'm just wondering. When i told a friend about my date he told me this is expected since young girls don't know how to communicate yet and hold conversations like adults and don't care about anybody but themselves (which is why she didn't even ask me a question). So her behavior was not a statement of her interest level of me. Not only that he told me that they are not attuned to their sexuality yet so they won't flirt/make any moves.
I just wanted to get confirmation from you guys on the above or maybe it was just her? she did mention her weight to me and how she wanted to lose 10 pounts (showing he has low self steam) and mentioned during out txt conversations before our date how it takes her time to show affection. Any tips on how to escalate to kissing with this girl on my second date or any other tips if she will just not show me any sexual signals or show that much interest level.
