"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you elevate your mood?

moneyisking

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I remember that in order to do well with anything (and the ladies), you must feel GREAT. I mean Great. So, how do you feel great? I sometimes feel just real good and confident, but other times, I just feel sh!tty. Of course, when I feel good, I do well with the chicks, and when I feel less confident, i feel that twitch in the stomach and get nervous in the head.

It's like I am going through PMS or something... Jeez.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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chrisgoodrich25

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moneyisking said:
I remember that in order to do well with anything (and the ladies), you must feel GREAT. I mean Great. So, how do you feel great? I sometimes feel just real good and confident, but other times, I just feel sh!tty. Of course, when I feel good, I do well with the chicks, and when I feel less confident, i feel that twitch in the stomach and get nervous in the head.

It's like I am going through PMS or something... Jeez.
dude I wish i knew the answer..I'm doing everything in my power to better myself..practicing self disciplin in all my affairs..(exercise) reading..being sociable...I even made a goal list as well as a daily to do list..and you know what..most of the time I feel really good about myself..although sometimes I just feel really ****ty..like today..I think you'll just have to wait it out
 

Poonani Maker

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I'll watch my favorite movie(s), ones that might make me tear up out of happiness, music, or sing in the car a nursery rhyme or church song. It's easy. Plus I eat a Lot of spinach. People always see me as happy, because I am. I bring good news to everyone.
 

Nexus Polaris

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^Beat me to it. Music all the way. I've got a specific folder full of feel good stuff on my MP3 player for that very purpose.

Sort through your music collection and make note of the stuff that you notice puts you in a good mood. If you don't have much of this stuff, go out looking for some. Then either put it all together on your MP3 player or burn it all onto a CD. Works like a charm for me.

I also have various other MP3 folders designed to put me in various different moods. One for a take no shìt / laying down the law attitude I use for work (bouncer). One for sexual state. One for just chilling and being happy. Etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BigWillyStyle

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Music is a good mood-elevator... when I'm already feeling good. However, when I'm feeling down my usual happy-feel-good music doesn't lift my spirits; in fact it does the opposite.
 

suaveplayer

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getting enough rest and not being tired is VERYYY important. trust me.
 
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