"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I remember that in order to do well with anything (and the ladies), you must feel GREAT. I mean Great. So, how do you feel great? I sometimes feel just real good and confident, but other times, I just feel sh!tty. Of course, when I feel good, I do well with the chicks, and when I feel less confident, i feel that twitch in the stomach and get nervous in the head.

It's like I am going through PMS or something... Jeez.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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moneyisking said:
I remember that in order to do well with anything (and the ladies), you must feel GREAT. I mean Great. So, how do you feel great? I sometimes feel just real good and confident, but other times, I just feel sh!tty. Of course, when I feel good, I do well with the chicks, and when I feel less confident, i feel that twitch in the stomach and get nervous in the head.

It's like I am going through PMS or something... Jeez.
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dude I wish i knew the answer..I'm doing everything in my power to better myself..practicing self disciplin in all my affairs..(exercise) reading..being sociable...I even made a goal list as well as a daily to do list..and you know what..most of the time I feel really good about myself..although sometimes I just feel really ****ty..like today..I think you'll just have to wait it out
 
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I'll watch my favorite movie(s), ones that might make me tear up out of happiness, music, or sing in the car a nursery rhyme or church song. It's easy. Plus I eat a Lot of spinach. People always see me as happy, because I am. I bring good news to everyone.
 
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^Beat me to it. Music all the way. I've got a specific folder full of feel good stuff on my MP3 player for that very purpose.

Sort through your music collection and make note of the stuff that you notice puts you in a good mood. If you don't have much of this stuff, go out looking for some. Then either put it all together on your MP3 player or burn it all onto a CD. Works like a charm for me.

I also have various other MP3 folders designed to put me in various different moods. One for a take no shìt / laying down the law attitude I use for work (bouncer). One for sexual state. One for just chilling and being happy. Etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Music is a good mood-elevator... when I'm already feeling good. However, when I'm feeling down my usual happy-feel-good music doesn't lift my spirits; in fact it does the opposite.
 
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getting enough rest and not being tired is VERYYY important. trust me.
 
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