"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do you elevate your mood?

moneyisking

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I remember that in order to do well with anything (and the ladies), you must feel GREAT. I mean Great. So, how do you feel great? I sometimes feel just real good and confident, but other times, I just feel sh!tty. Of course, when I feel good, I do well with the chicks, and when I feel less confident, i feel that twitch in the stomach and get nervous in the head.

It's like I am going through PMS or something... Jeez.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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moneyisking said:
I remember that in order to do well with anything (and the ladies), you must feel GREAT. I mean Great. So, how do you feel great? I sometimes feel just real good and confident, but other times, I just feel sh!tty. Of course, when I feel good, I do well with the chicks, and when I feel less confident, i feel that twitch in the stomach and get nervous in the head.

It's like I am going through PMS or something... Jeez.
dude I wish i knew the answer..I'm doing everything in my power to better myself..practicing self disciplin in all my affairs..(exercise) reading..being sociable...I even made a goal list as well as a daily to do list..and you know what..most of the time I feel really good about myself..although sometimes I just feel really ****ty..like today..I think you'll just have to wait it out
 

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I'll watch my favorite movie(s), ones that might make me tear up out of happiness, music, or sing in the car a nursery rhyme or church song. It's easy. Plus I eat a Lot of spinach. People always see me as happy, because I am. I bring good news to everyone.
 

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^Beat me to it. Music all the way. I've got a specific folder full of feel good stuff on my MP3 player for that very purpose.

Sort through your music collection and make note of the stuff that you notice puts you in a good mood. If you don't have much of this stuff, go out looking for some. Then either put it all together on your MP3 player or burn it all onto a CD. Works like a charm for me.

I also have various other MP3 folders designed to put me in various different moods. One for a take no shìt / laying down the law attitude I use for work (bouncer). One for sexual state. One for just chilling and being happy. Etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Music is a good mood-elevator... when I'm already feeling good. However, when I'm feeling down my usual happy-feel-good music doesn't lift my spirits; in fact it does the opposite.
 

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getting enough rest and not being tired is VERYYY important. trust me.
 
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