"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you dump a chick on her ass the nice way?

cactus3178

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Especially if she's a nice girl?


*feels guilty*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tell her shes so hot that you cant stand it and that you would get way to jealous so lets just be friends
 

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do what girls do when they reject you.
 

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Get all needy and clingy with her. Tell her you love her and with her you feel complete.

Spend hours on the phone with her and take all her **** and make enemies with all her friends.

Have sex with her in 2 mins and refuse to go down below.

That usually does it, and the beauty is she thinks she's dumped you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by Alpine
Get all needy and clingy with her. Tell her you love her and with her you feel complete.

Spend hours on the phone with her and take all her **** and make enemies with all her friends.

Have sex with her in 2 mins and refuse to go down below.

That usually does it, and the beauty is she thinks she's dumped you.
a girl will always think she dumped you anyway.
 

Porky

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
do what girls do when they reject you.
call the cops??
 

Eternal

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Tell her "It's not me, it's you."

That, or:

"We should see other people. What's your friend Stacey's number?"
 
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