How do you DJ's play "the phone game"?

[Ace_McGregor]

Okay, so everyone has their own approach on calling a girl after they get her digits. I'd like to hear everyone's take on this.

Suppose you score a girl's number on Friday night. Let's assume you think she is somewhat interested in you.

What day do you call?
What do you do if she doesn't answer? (Try again later or leave a message?)
If you leave a message what do you say?
How many times will you try before you give up?

-Ace-

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Why do you guys even get her number if it's going to cause this much mental anguish?

 

[Wiesman44]

thats why nobody on this site gets laid. everyone analyzes too much

 

[Sosa]

I couldn't agree more.

 

[Ratisson]

I got a girls number on friday (sept 15) and i still havent called her. I'll probably do it on monday. I think if you hold back and let her wonder why u havent called her she'll like u more, because every other guy will call her within 2 days. Some people might say that she will lose interest or forget who you are if u wait this long. But i say this, i havent forgotten about her and u cant forget someone if u have high interst in them. Would u forget about someone like Pamela Anderson in 10 days, no. I just think its better and safer doing it this way.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I got a girls number on friday (sept 15) and i still havent called her. I'll probably do it on monday. I think if you hold back and let her wonder why u havent called her she'll like u more, because every other guy will call her within 2 days. Some people might say that she will lose interest or forget who you are if u wait this long. But i say this, i havent forgotten about her and u cant forget someone if u have high interst in them. Would u forget about someone like Pamela Anderson in 10 days, no. I just think its better and safer doing it this way.

In other words, not calling is the best way to avoid rejection...

 

[Phyzzle]

Ah, but clueless guys need rules (and I've been there.)

Wait at least two days, and don't call on a Friday or Saturday night.

You can leave a message the second time you call her, and then give up. There's no point calling again after that.

Just a simple "this is x call me back" message is best, though if you know this girl's circle of friends, it would be hillarious to say

"You know, Jenn and I were talking about you, and, I was just wanting to see if this is true, she said that - (click!)"

 

[Phyzzle]

Oh, and waiting a while might raise her interest a tad (If she's already into you), but the real reason to wait is to test her interest.

I'm guessing you're inexperienced, and have little idea if this chick likes you. Well, if you call her tonight, and she doesn't remember who you are, there's your anwer.

But, dude, it's been almost half a month. Call her now.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Ah, but clueless guys need rules...

Dude, that's fvckin' scary!!!! :nervous:

 

[lougv22]

i met a girl on Friday (Sep 15), and got her phone number. My plan was to wait until Sunday night to call her but she texted me on Sunday morning. We exchanged a couple of texts. On Wednesday night I called her and asked her out and she said 'yes'. This Thursday we went on a date.

What i would have done if she didn't answer my call would be to leave a message. Then if she didn't return my call i would have waited a week and call again and then possibly give up if she didn't return that call. Only if i was very interested i would try one more time, but after 3 not retrurned phone calls i would definitely give up and say 'Next'. Of course in my case that wasn't necessary but those are my rules.