"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how do you dj a girl you have a class with?

trump _tight21

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whats up to all the djs. i just wanna know whats the best way to dj a girl that you have a class with. like the "just see her once a week" rule would be out because of seeing her at school. I'm in community college and i go 2 days out of the week. so when i try to get a date with her i would be seeing her 3 times a week, wouldn't that be too much? maybe i should just build rapaport until next semester to hook up with her so ifwe didn't have class together we wouldn't see each other every day? should i somedays pay her attention in and other days act aloof? I thought about the "getting together to study" way to get the number but i don't really care for it. I know i probably sound like 50 cent's 21 questions or some shyt, but any of you djs out there have any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tactic

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approach her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Get a couple of nice players, some good amp, some nice vinyl. Then you invite her back to your place and say "HEy I want to show you my DJing", then you do some mixes for her.
 

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yes htis topic is interesting. and i read the post in the tips section.

but the first time u walk up to them and chitchat about class, should you even consider kino the first time around? like a pat on the back or shoulder...or until you've built rapport?
 
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