"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how do you dj a girl you have a class with?

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whats up to all the djs. i just wanna know whats the best way to dj a girl that you have a class with. like the "just see her once a week" rule would be out because of seeing her at school. I'm in community college and i go 2 days out of the week. so when i try to get a date with her i would be seeing her 3 times a week, wouldn't that be too much? maybe i should just build rapaport until next semester to hook up with her so ifwe didn't have class together we wouldn't see each other every day? should i somedays pay her attention in and other days act aloof? I thought about the "getting together to study" way to get the number but i don't really care for it. I know i probably sound like 50 cent's 21 questions or some shyt, but any of you djs out there have any advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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approach her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Get a couple of nice players, some good amp, some nice vinyl. Then you invite her back to your place and say "HEy I want to show you my DJing", then you do some mixes for her.
 
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yes htis topic is interesting. and i read the post in the tips section.

but the first time u walk up to them and chitchat about class, should you even consider kino the first time around? like a pat on the back or shoulder...or until you've built rapport?
 
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