"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you deal with the aloof girl?

RNR

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I'm talking the type of girl that barely reaches out to you and doesn't make any effort to contact you and when you talk to her she acts aloof. I have this problem alot. How do i deal with it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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chrisgoodrich25

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RNR said:
I'm talking the type of girl that barely reaches out to you and doesn't make any effort to contact you and when you talk to her she acts aloof. I have this problem alot. How do i deal with it?
just next her..don't waste time chasing her if she doesn't seem interested
 

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chrisgoodrich25 said:
just next her..don't waste time chasing her if she doesn't seem interested
I wish it was one girl. It would make it very simple to just move on lol it seems to be every girl i meet just lately so im thinking im probably being needy or something
 

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I have to disagree. If there's a girl I really fancy. I just remain ****y and persistent. Eventually it will pay off. But very few girls actually can charm me in such a way.
 

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RNR said:
I wish it was one girl. It would make it very simple to just move on lol it seems to be every girl i meet just lately so im thinking im probably being needy or something
We all go through dry spells.

I would just focus on myself for a bit if I were you and be the aloof guy that THEY chase after.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dont waste your time..im going through the same thing.....i just keep moving on to the next one
 

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Kino her. I've recently kino'd a stuck up b!tch. Now she "dresses" for/ looks for me/ spies on me, when I'm in the room at a later date or something.

When I touched her shoulder in a friendly way, she acted a little like "wtf are you touching me for?" but she didn't want to make a scene, so I just rolled off the touch, but nonetheless, I touched her, and she probably rarely gets touched by guys (her parents locked her up in the basement her entire life), and now sees some guy who will.
 
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