How do you deal with presex date (usually first) when it comes to fat chicks

[sosousage]

i have no problems fuvking fat chicks but im ashamed to show with them public, and often i get into situation where we flirt and text about sex and she then says stuff like "maybe wine first"? etc.

she then explains she wont do sex with person who she saw only in internet. its understandable. some chicks want to fuk u hard but they need that first normal date. excite them a bit, escalate etc.


if i meet with slim girl i have no problems escalating in public but if i get a fat one i find it really WEIRD and think like "shhh let it be over already". last time i had date with fat chick at the end she wanted to kiss me (i initiated first kiss) and to cuddle me while i was like "ohh let me go already pls"



ps im focusing on 3-7 yr older women so they live alone and have their own place (i dont) it makes things much easier for me, but i cant be picky in this situation ;p

 

[NSX-R]

Date them at your/their place . Nobody is going to see you there .

 

[sosousage]

Date them at your/their place . Nobody is going to see you there .

i dont have my place, thats why i go for older chicks who have their **** in place lul

 

[Spaz]

Wtf is wrong with you brother? Everyman needs to have standards, among them is don't fvck a fattie.

Get a slim girl, even a plain one is better then a fattie.

 

[marmel75]

I would never consider banging a fat chick so i have no advice for you.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

If you're embarassed to be out with her in public, you shouldn't be dating her most likely.

I felt proud to be with my ex in public, she was a cutie and I'd even just hold hands with her while we walked round town. Even if it's a plate or a fling, going for people that you feel cringey being around just because they have a vagina probably isn't a great idea.

 

[CBear]

I remember one time this girl was filling my inbox with cringey texts because she wanted to fk and wanted me to be her bf. I wasn't attracted to her & basically told her to fk off.

Another time, this chick with nice @ss and t!ts tried to be my work out partner (lol) and made it very clear to me that she wanted to get sexual. For me, her face wasn't there and I just wasn't attracted to her and I'd never want to seen in public with her so I basically told her to fk off.

Chlopie. naprawde...miej do siebie szacunek...
^this will take you a long way if you develop it.

 

[guru1000]

Sososausage, the men here can be so shallow. Don’t listen to them.

I, too, get embarrassed if I meet an OLD girl who turns up to be a 6 in person. I politely excuse myself from the date and tell the waitress I think this girl is lost and sitting at the wrong table, as I wait for the next double-header girl to show.

 

[Glassguy]

OP- why dont you raise your standards. No idea how you can get sexually turned on by a chick that you wouldnt take out in public.

 

[JohnChops]

Sososausage, the men here can be so shallow. Don’t listen to them.

I, too, get embarrassed if I meet an OLD girl who turns up to be a 6 in person. I politely excuse myself from the date and tell the waitress I think this girl is lost and sitting at the wrong table, as I wait for the next double-header girl to show.

That is Brilliant advice.

 

[Desdinova]

Two things you need to learn here...

1) Women will require the same method of seduction regardless of their physical appearance. If a thin woman requires 3 dates before she fvcks you, then so will a fat woman. Their brains are wired the same.

2) You haven't embraced the "I don't give a fvck" attitude if you're worried about other people's opinions about the women you're in public with. If you still have a problem with this, it's likely that you're still going to suffer from the heartache that comes with being dumped, and having the confidence to deal with the garbage that life throws in your direction.

If I were you, I'd make it my mission to quit caring what others think of you. Most of the people who see you with whoever you're dating will never see you again, so why is their opinion so important? It's not, so quit worrying about it and seduce these women properly.

 

[MatureDJ]

Every time you fuuck a fat chick a little piece inside of you dies.

 

[MrWood]

Every time you fuuck a fat chick a little piece inside of you dies.

this.

 

[R.U.G.]

What are your bare minimal requirements for a woman? A pulse?

 

[Magotrox]

Go for many. Your problem is scarcity. When you got more plates, you can rise your standards. Don't waste time getting out. Take them to your home directly. Prepare you house to have good entertainment (video, music, drinks and snacks) and it is done. If you think that a girl don't deserve wasting time and money, just go for the next. You are the chooser.

 

[R.U.G.]

Seriously. Why are some of you guys encouraging him? He obviously has a self esteem problem if he's only porking Ms. Piggy and Jabba the Hutt. I'd rather be celibate than fvck something in a moo moo. But hey, that's just me. I'm funny like that.

 

[Magotrox]

Seriously. Why are some of you guys encouraging him? He obviously has a self esteem problem if he's only porking Ms. Piggy and Jabba the Hutt. I'd rather be celibate than fvck something in a moo moo. But hey, that's just me. I'm funny like that.

If he is considering an option fvck her, I see no problem. When you are at beginning, your standards are lower. As long as you have plates to spin, you start to rise these standards. In the first place, you must fight the scarcity. Then, when you have more options, you leave the low value plates for better ones. That's the way to go.

 

[17 shots]

lmao OP I hope they're at least fat chicks with huge titties or fat asses

Take them to a movie late at night on a slow day, like a Monday or Tuesday. There will barely be anyone there lol