"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you deal with guys who try to ruin your game???

Production6257

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Ok, so I was at this party, and I was gaming some chick... I was teasing her because she had a notebook in front of her and I accused her of being a spy or a reporter or something. Well, as I was gaming her, some idiot frat guy said "yo, why don't you stop playing the ******* card and shut the hell up." Well,obviously I was mad, so I said " **** you ass****, so he got all of his idiot frat buddies together and said, "ok, your kicked out", and I had to leave. My question is; How do you deal with idiot jerks like this? Why do they do this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sexy_kuta

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u stay calm and make fun of him.. and ignore him then take the girl somewhere else to talk
 

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he is jealous. Relax and expect it. point it out to here and invite her outside.
kbj
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Remember ALL trash talking comes back to jealousy. Learn to ignore it and not care,DHV.
 

KoalaKing

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You should game girls differently, I wrote in another recent post that guys who have the tough man image don't get hassled by the other guys yet the ****y and funny guys who do the neg-hits do, it is all to do with the type of personality of which you are portraying at the time. :yes:
 

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This kind of person is known as a c0ckblocker. There are a few things to do in this kind of situation:

1. AMOG him.
2. COMPLETELY IGNORE HIM
3. If you know you will probably be facing these kinds of situations, it would be best to bring a wing

However, you should NEVER get into a fight because of this. This will not impress the girl and you'll make a fool of yourself in the process. Oh yeah, and probably get your ass beat. First you should scan the room for potential c0ckblockers and if you see them coming in the middle of your conversation, try to wrap up as quickly as possible.
 

KoalaKing

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Kurt the KJ said:
This kind of person is known as a c0ckblocker. There are a few things to do in this kind of situation:

1. AMOG him.
2. COMPLETE IGNORE HIM
3. If you know you will probably be facing these kinds of situations, it would be best to bring a wing

However, you should NEVER get into a fight because of this. This will not impress the girl and you'll make a fool of yourself in the process. Oh yeah, and probably get your ass beat. First you should scan the room for potential c0ckblockers and if you see them coming in the middle of your conversation, try to wrap up as quickly as possible.
It is possible to display a tough man type persona which will negate these types of guys from hassling you, guys who do the ****y and funny thing who are succeeding with it seem to take the brunt from the jealous AFC types, yet the more aloof tough guy who the girls still swarm over don't seem to have this problem, if you look like an easy target and you are alluring the prettiest girls then it is obvious that other jealous AFC guys are going to have a go at you, but if you look like a bad ass tough man who doesn't take any crap at all these guys due to their fear of you will usually leave you alone. :yes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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