"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you deal with guys who try to ruin your game???

Production6257

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Ok, so I was at this party, and I was gaming some chick... I was teasing her because she had a notebook in front of her and I accused her of being a spy or a reporter or something. Well, as I was gaming her, some idiot frat guy said "yo, why don't you stop playing the ******* card and shut the hell up." Well,obviously I was mad, so I said " **** you ass****, so he got all of his idiot frat buddies together and said, "ok, your kicked out", and I had to leave. My question is; How do you deal with idiot jerks like this? Why do they do this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sexy_kuta

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u stay calm and make fun of him.. and ignore him then take the girl somewhere else to talk
 

dr0pxx

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he is jealous. Relax and expect it. point it out to here and invite her outside.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt

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Remember ALL trash talking comes back to jealousy. Learn to ignore it and not care,DHV.
 

KoalaKing

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You should game girls differently, I wrote in another recent post that guys who have the tough man image don't get hassled by the other guys yet the ****y and funny guys who do the neg-hits do, it is all to do with the type of personality of which you are portraying at the time. :yes:
 

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This kind of person is known as a c0ckblocker. There are a few things to do in this kind of situation:

1. AMOG him.
2. COMPLETELY IGNORE HIM
3. If you know you will probably be facing these kinds of situations, it would be best to bring a wing

However, you should NEVER get into a fight because of this. This will not impress the girl and you'll make a fool of yourself in the process. Oh yeah, and probably get your ass beat. First you should scan the room for potential c0ckblockers and if you see them coming in the middle of your conversation, try to wrap up as quickly as possible.
 

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Kurt the KJ said:
This kind of person is known as a c0ckblocker. There are a few things to do in this kind of situation:

1. AMOG him.
2. COMPLETE IGNORE HIM
3. If you know you will probably be facing these kinds of situations, it would be best to bring a wing

However, you should NEVER get into a fight because of this. This will not impress the girl and you'll make a fool of yourself in the process. Oh yeah, and probably get your ass beat. First you should scan the room for potential c0ckblockers and if you see them coming in the middle of your conversation, try to wrap up as quickly as possible.
It is possible to display a tough man type persona which will negate these types of guys from hassling you, guys who do the ****y and funny thing who are succeeding with it seem to take the brunt from the jealous AFC types, yet the more aloof tough guy who the girls still swarm over don't seem to have this problem, if you look like an easy target and you are alluring the prettiest girls then it is obvious that other jealous AFC guys are going to have a go at you, but if you look like a bad ass tough man who doesn't take any crap at all these guys due to their fear of you will usually leave you alone. :yes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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