How do you deal with girls that just want to be "friends"?

[teddy]

You know what I mean. Those time-wasters. They need validation or attention with no intention of giving it up, but still will contact you from time to time. Do you just ignore them?

 

[abe0]

I tend to respond to the first text by being polite...."doing well, thanks for asking"....I do not ask how they are doing nor ask any further questions to invite a wasteful conversation. If they text back again...I ignore and hopefully they get the message. If I really do not care at all because she is truly an attention grabbing b+tch....then I totally ignore so that they GO AWAY. Abe

 

[teddy]

I tend to respond to the first text by being polite...."doing well, thanks for asking"....I do not ask how they are doing nor ask any further questions to invite a wasteful conversation. If they text back again...I ignore and hopefully they get the message. If I really do not care at all because she is truly an attention grabbing b+tch....then I totally ignore so that they GO AWAY. Abe

Maybe I'm still inexperienced but sometimes they really try to make you feel bad/guilty for not being their "friend".

 

[PlayHer Man]

How do you deal with girls that just want to be "friends"? --> YOU DON'T.

Men with options who are spinning plates don't have time to be a faggot beta orbiter for some arrogant attention wh0re.

 

[teddy]

How do you deal with girls that just want to be "friends"? --> YOU DON'T.

Men with options who are spinning plates don't have time to be a faggot beta orbiter for some arrogant attention wh0re.

So just ignore?

Like I said above, some of these women try their best to make you feel guilty.

 

[joker79]

read this

http://therationalmale.com/2012/11/29/friends-like-these/

 

[TheGambino]

Dude spin plates, I got so many plates going on I don't even remember who I put on the backburner, all uninterested ones or the ones that give me a hard time are on the backburner. Find interested girls man, hot interested girls are everywhere, approach and get what you want bro.

Chasing a girl that's giving you a hard time in any way isn't worth your time.

And tbh, I was friendzoned many times in the past coz the girls liked my company but I never made moves or was sexual so that was my own mistake. If you make sexual jokes, kino her, kiss her, seduce her, basically making moves you can't be friendzoned coz every girl will feel you want to nail her. She either goes along with it or comes up with excuses, flakes or ignores you (NO INTEREST). They will go ghost on you or bang you, it's that easy man. Guys friendzone themselves.

If you want this girl you gotta make moves. Hook up, kino, tease, escalate. It's that easy, if she refuses or declines or says 'stop were just friends' you either accept that if you can handle it and you keep her around so she can introduce you to her friends. Or you just cut contact, you reply very short and always be busy when you see her or she contacts you. She will eventually feel like you got other women in your life going on and stop chasing you. Whatever happens this girl is giving you a hard time so do what works best for you, she's toying with ya

 

[tripod23]

you say.............friends with benefits would be good....with a big smile and confidence.......if she says no , just say give me a call when you change your mind.....bye

 

[tripod23]

How do you deal with girls that just want to be "friends"? --> YOU DON'T.

Men with options who are spinning plates don't have time to be a faggot beta orbiter for some arrogant attention wh0re.

spinning or not.......i still agree , giving chicks attention without anything in return doesnt work for me............

 

[nismo-4]

You ignore these attention wh0res. Simple.

Case closed.

 

[skinnyguy]

Try to put your hand down her shirt or caress her legs.

If she resists, it's her fault for leading you on. Just say "I thought you were into me". Win win situation for you.

 

[JohnChops]

How do you deal with girls that just want to be "friends"? --> YOU DON'T.

Men with options who are spinning plates don't have time to be a faggot beta orbiter for some arrogant attention wh0re.

So if you're her friend you're automatically a level 60 beta orbiter? Ahaha. OP if you want to be friends with them then be friends with them. If you get friend zoned then stopped talking to them.

Simple.

 

[_sideways_]

Try to put your hand down her shirt or caress her legs.

If she resists, it's her fault for leading you on. Just say "I thought you were into me". Win win situation for you.

Good one bro.....lol

 

[PlayHer Man]

So just ignore?

Like I said above, some of these women try their best to make you feel guilty.

Let them try. Why would you care what a woman you're not f*cking thinks?

That's a serious question you should ask yourself.

 

[VladPatton]

As the other guys said, you simply don't deal with them. There is NOTHING in it for you except time lost and empty infatuation. Hey if you like them talking about how they just blew their cool new boyfriend while you hold their bag in front of Victoria's Secret as she goes shopping, more power to ya.

For the majority of us, we find that en exhausting waste of time.

Next time just say you can't make it because you met a new chick and she's treating you to a night of hot, wild hotel sex. Give zero details and say you gotta go. No details when they ask about it later, either.