"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do you deal with emotional chicks?....this girl got so fvckin emotional

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this girl has been hanging around me and my friends for about a month now. shes cool always down to party and have fun. i kind of want her for some reason i dont know why. me and her have done a bunch of sh1t together etc. after hanging out with her ive found out her mom died like a year ago or maybe less than that and she also broke up with her bf of 2 years. probably stemming from that. i know i would be fvcked up for a while also if that happened to me.
last night she was over my house and every one was drinking but then me and her stayed up after every one went to bed. we eventually got drunk. then she just lost it. first she started saying sh1t like everyone in my house talks sh1t about her which is totally untrue then she said something about me saying something about her being obsessed with someone (untrue). then she started balling about her mom like you dont understand and all this other sh!t. i just kept saying i can imagine but i probably dont understand. i know shes unstable right now and has issues she needs to handle

she feel asleep and she woke up and texted me like 15 mintues after she left.
her: i am sorry for getting upset not a good week to drink i should have gone home.
me: i dont remember everything but dont worry about it its all good.
her:well thank you then i am crazy but not usually emotional
me: haha i know

how do deal with this sh!t? yea i can just ignore it i kept trying to change the subject but its hard when someone is ballin hard. ive hung out with her alot and never saw this side of her. i knew it existed from what my roomate has said. guess i was at the wrong place and at the wrong time when she lost it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It may of been like she said and she was just having a rough night and drank a bit too much.

She's been through some bad emotional trauma of losing a parent so this is natural.

If things persist in a negative and crazy direction with her though next her.

If she improves and treats you better and better continue on as you were and have fun with her.
 
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Be a rock, stay fully present with her through all her emotions. She doesn't want you to solve her problems she's just letting it all out.

Your going to have to get used to emotional girls if you want a girl I think :p
 
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well my ex was very emotional day in and day out in fvckin drained me eventually. i was just listening to her saying im trying to understand etc. and told her to be stronger and shell be alright.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She was reacting to the alcohol. Just don't get her drunk. It'll be ok. a lot of girls get more emotional when they are drunk, and women are just emotional anyway. She's not looking for advice. If she was, she'd ask for it. All you have to do is be sympathetic when she gets that way. Girls don't want advice, the just want to talk out their feelings.
 
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