How do you deal with drama?

[seethehoop]

Just wondered how you guys dealt with women's drama.

Long story short, a girl I am seeing (call her C) has a friend, who I have never me but other week I teased C by saying I was gonna get her friends mobile and chat her up. As a joke C got her friend to text me instead. A few joke flirt messages later it dies off. No biggie.

Today, I was teasing C again about her friend and said I would message her friend about the pic she promised me. Any way I sent her friend saying "Oi, where's my dirty pic" I was just playing them at their own game but the response I got was pretty much: "its just a windup, youre not getting one. dont message me again"

I didnt respond but C sent me a message saying it backfired and her friend isnt impressed etc. I said I didnt really care and left it at that.

Later I got a vmail of C saying I messed up and her friend is annoyed at me.

Its also worth noting that both these girls work together and C knows I was just doing it to wind her up and I am not really after her friend so I dont understand why its escalated and why C wouldnt just tell her I am messing about and winding them both up.

I still havent responded. Personally, I CBA with the drama so I think Im just gonna let it hang there see how it plays out cos its so pathetic its unreal, and its not even C who is annoyed at me. Of course we all know a girl's friends can make or brake you though. So I just wondered how you guys deal with pathetic drama such as this.

 

[pinkfl]

Let me get this straight:

you "tease" threatened to flirt up her friend
you then flirted with her friend when she texted you
And then you asked for a nude picture
And now you're wondering why there is drama?

1. When her friend texted you, you should have said "hey I was just teasing "c", I wasn't actually going to flirt with you." and left it at that.
2. They both think you are a pig right now. If you're seeing a girl, you don't flirt with her friend. At all.

Sorry...but you kind of brought this on yourself.

 

[seethehoop]

No it was all congruent. C only asked her friend to flirt with me as a test to see if I had the balls as a bit of a joke. C isn't even bothered. She thinks it's funny, it's her friend who is causing the drama even though she flirted with me as part of the joke. All I was doing was carrying the joke on.