"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you deal with c*ck blocking?

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Like I try to be outgoing and what not but people seem to be around for a second and then leave and go somewhere else... Especially girls. Last night I was at a lame party with only 2 girls. I got their attention and they were starting to show interest, but because they're the only girls in an all male place, all the other guys are gonna try and f*ck your game up. The c*ckblocks started trying to flaunt by buyin g a bunch of ecstasy so it drove their attention away from me and then like 4 dudes took the girls away from me and somewhere else, and so I left..grr. How do you deal with this? Everytime I have a potential girl the same thing happens over and over.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Go to parties with more chicks. Play the numbers game and you will have more luck..

Either that or make yourself more interesting than the other dweebs.
 

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You can always go to the club.
 
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NO last time I went to a club I went to prison.
 

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How do you deal with them at school when you're asleep and everyone else is being cool and stuff?

If you can at all control who comes to things, keep c()ck blockers out and the group small. Also people who will bring up funny things you said are good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
NO last time I went to a club I went to prison.
Yes you went to prison at the age of 17.....

Yeah pretty much just don't go lol....

I just thought of a bunch of variables in my head but it's not even worth the effort just don't go..

OR if you're really good you can confuse the **** out of them. Act really interested in them... then ignore them for a few minutes.

But then again the whole other guys with ecstacy thing made you look like a guy with nothing at all.

Don't start doing or dealing drugs just because of that reason though just find different groups or some ****.


I did just about every drug on the face of this earth. (Speed was my drug of choice) for about 2 years.

It's not worth it.

Change groups.
 

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Yeah I wouldn't do ecstacy if you haven't already. I talked to some guy that's done it and he said when you do it it is about the best feeling ever, but the next morning/later on you feel about as bad as you possibly can. And he said that the good feeling while you did it isn't worth what you feel the next morning.
 
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point. I just want to know how to deal with the competition! Its something that totally f*cks my game up and i'm tired of it!
 

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Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker

I did just about every drug on the face of this earth. (Speed was my drug of choice) for about 2 years.
Did you do bannadine?
 
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you guys are gay, you need some good ol d-nuggs.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Have you just tried approaching, as opposed to merely stare at the girls?
 
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Dude I told you guys already. I approached the girls and talk to them and other sh*t but with other guys competing and interrupting me it sort of distracts my game... I always approach.
 
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can anyone direct me to some links regarding this topic?
 

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beat the other guys up duh what else is there to do haha :p
 

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How do you deal with c()ckblocking?

It is VERY simple.............

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MOVE ON.


Case and point.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker

I did just about every drug on the face of this earth. (Speed was my drug of choice) for about 2 years.
Ever done a strand of DATURA? Devil's Weed, Jimson Weed, etc?

I'm on it right now, took it two days ago in tea but the effect's taking forever to wear off. Didn't know what I was taking.

Heard it's like 100x stronger than LSD.

WORST DRUG IN THE WORLD. I SEE DEAD PEOPLE. HELP!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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