"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you deal with boring girls?

om1xr

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We all have dated some boring ass girls that make you want to punch yourself on the face for wasting your time by asking them out even if the dates are exciting but their negative/boring company makes you finish the date ASAP.

Personally i always make sure the first dates are action dates or anything that makes doing stuff alone fun even if the girl is just worth a bang and then you say ciao to her ass and hope to never see her again no matter how hot is she!

i know that some of you just want a date with a hot babe but I'm asking guys who have no problem walking away from a girl like nothing!

how do you deal with boring girls especially on first dates?

some of those hot b!itches just show up and expect you to entertain her ass. personally i make the date short and have no problem with telling her that this is not working and just walk away; I've done it a lot! but most of those boring girls always keep contact and want to hang out more! haha!

i know that you can keep them as FBs but you can say that I'm allergic to boring people!

so how do you deal with those kind of boring situations and girls?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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asa_don

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get rid of them, that's what i do, if they bore me i cut the date short, no need to waste your time with them.

funny though, the only time they show any life and are not boring is when they are having sex, same goes for the conversations, boring as hell until they start talking about sex, then their eyes light up as they finally show some enthusiasm, crazy ass chicks.
 

El Payaso

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You don't.
 

narcissist

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I next them instantly.

Im not too fond of girls that think they can get by in life with boring/sh*tty/unintelligent personalities just because they are considered "attractive" under normative social standards

It sucks that women can receive endless social currency and praise just because they are hot/gorgeous/beautiful. With that in mind, it seems easy to understand why a lot of them dont give a sh*t about bettering their personalities in order to actually be entertaining and make others around them feel good due to a positive presence. This is because they receive praise and worship no matter what, due to social media companies such as instagram, facebook, tumblr, vine, etc. etc.

These sites and apps are only successful because they specialize in giving these girls a narcissistic supply derived from their aesthetic input.

Well, I say no. Im not going to perpetuate that. If they are boring, unintellignet, or have overall sh*tty personalities & are not putting in any effort trying to fix it, then I dont want those socially draining, praise sucking, shallow vampires around me

They aren't contributing anything to this world and are only perpetuating the serious epidemic we have as a culture on the significance of aesthetics

Just my 2 cents :cool:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yusaark

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What narcissist said. You want a good time? Get a not as hot slightly shy girl. Treat her to a good night and get her to open up a little and you will see a girl who wants to please. People think its disgusting to talk like this but let me tell you, in my experience, that girl is dying to have a good time whether its sex or otherwise and if you can be the one to get that out of her, she'll shine and be a ton of fun!

don't waste time with boring b!tches who are hot and uninteresting because they also tend to rely on being hot when getting a guy horny in bed... once you've had an experienced girl who knows how to get a guy off, those hot girls start to get way less interesting.
 

VladPatton

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You don't deal with them, homie, you bounce. You ain't a court jester. This is why you start off with cheap dates and work your way up if she's worth it.
 

Poop1337

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If a girls hot just looking at her adorable face is going to entertain me. You're not dating girls you're into if you're bored.
 
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