"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do you deal with boring girls?

om1xr

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We all have dated some boring ass girls that make you want to punch yourself on the face for wasting your time by asking them out even if the dates are exciting but their negative/boring company makes you finish the date ASAP.

Personally i always make sure the first dates are action dates or anything that makes doing stuff alone fun even if the girl is just worth a bang and then you say ciao to her ass and hope to never see her again no matter how hot is she!

i know that some of you just want a date with a hot babe but I'm asking guys who have no problem walking away from a girl like nothing!

how do you deal with boring girls especially on first dates?

some of those hot b!itches just show up and expect you to entertain her ass. personally i make the date short and have no problem with telling her that this is not working and just walk away; I've done it a lot! but most of those boring girls always keep contact and want to hang out more! haha!

i know that you can keep them as FBs but you can say that I'm allergic to boring people!

so how do you deal with those kind of boring situations and girls?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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asa_don

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get rid of them, that's what i do, if they bore me i cut the date short, no need to waste your time with them.

funny though, the only time they show any life and are not boring is when they are having sex, same goes for the conversations, boring as hell until they start talking about sex, then their eyes light up as they finally show some enthusiasm, crazy ass chicks.
 

El Payaso

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You don't.
 

narcissist

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I next them instantly.

Im not too fond of girls that think they can get by in life with boring/sh*tty/unintelligent personalities just because they are considered "attractive" under normative social standards

It sucks that women can receive endless social currency and praise just because they are hot/gorgeous/beautiful. With that in mind, it seems easy to understand why a lot of them dont give a sh*t about bettering their personalities in order to actually be entertaining and make others around them feel good due to a positive presence. This is because they receive praise and worship no matter what, due to social media companies such as instagram, facebook, tumblr, vine, etc. etc.

These sites and apps are only successful because they specialize in giving these girls a narcissistic supply derived from their aesthetic input.

Well, I say no. Im not going to perpetuate that. If they are boring, unintellignet, or have overall sh*tty personalities & are not putting in any effort trying to fix it, then I dont want those socially draining, praise sucking, shallow vampires around me

They aren't contributing anything to this world and are only perpetuating the serious epidemic we have as a culture on the significance of aesthetics

Just my 2 cents :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yusaark

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What narcissist said. You want a good time? Get a not as hot slightly shy girl. Treat her to a good night and get her to open up a little and you will see a girl who wants to please. People think its disgusting to talk like this but let me tell you, in my experience, that girl is dying to have a good time whether its sex or otherwise and if you can be the one to get that out of her, she'll shine and be a ton of fun!

don't waste time with boring b!tches who are hot and uninteresting because they also tend to rely on being hot when getting a guy horny in bed... once you've had an experienced girl who knows how to get a guy off, those hot girls start to get way less interesting.
 

VladPatton

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You don't deal with them, homie, you bounce. You ain't a court jester. This is why you start off with cheap dates and work your way up if she's worth it.
 

Poop1337

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If a girls hot just looking at her adorable face is going to entertain me. You're not dating girls you're into if you're bored.
 
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