"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how do you deal with ****blockers?

pimp in training

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so your at a club, dancing with some chick, making out with her, etc. etc. her friends come along and pull her away off into god knows where....why does this happen? how can you 'fix it'? does this require a wingman?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Probably they're trying to "protect" her

:rolleyes:

But that's not necessarily bad. As long as you can get her info before she leaves, their actions will only serve to make her want you more.

This certainly gives one reason to rethink the practice of getting a gal's # just before you're ready to go home.
 

DJ_Dork

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be friendly with the k0kblockers.

i never k0kblock anyone unless i determine that he is drunk/physical threat to the girl. i'm a gentleman, i let you dorks hit on my female friends before they reject you fast, and i get pleasure out of making losers get free drinks too.
 

Tha Realnezz

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They're evaluating you.

Unless you Brad pitt or a Colin Ferell-looking muthercker your not gonna pass with them.So a wing-man won't sway them neither will "charm".I just walk away unless they're inviting .I have no time for kiddie sh!t.

"Protecting her" is something women want you to think so they can make you insecure an put the ball in their court.It like a female neg-hit to put knock you off.That's why I usually wipe my ass with women's advise they all have an agenda.If her freind wanted resuing she woudln't be talking to you.I think you would notice if a chic is bored.

Next time that happens walk away.Scope out more hoes,and then come back.If she's not giving you anything move on.

It's that real,man.Don't be a fvcking clown for some b!tches freinds cuz you'll never be good enough.They hyporcritical so don't think they've accepeted yoy cuz you hang out with them.If they do like you it's cuz they wanna fvck you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I agree with several posts on getting the info on the early side of things. Most men hang on too long and wear out their welcome, completely ruining the challenge/mystery thing by 'showing all their cards' the first night and seeming too eager, interested, or desperate. If she really likes you tonight, she'll really like you tomorrow. If she doesn't, it's a waste of time, anyway.

Respect her time and the fact that she is out with her friends. If SHE does the inviting and seems genuinely interested in having you hang, then by all means, hang with them. But in general, less is more.
 
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