"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you deal with a friend who takes you for granted

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How would you deal with a wingman/longtime friend who has met a girl and changed ? He IMO takes me for granted only wanting me around whenever he needs a wingman or something.

Tough just letting a friendship of 12 years go down the drain. The guy just thinks Im gonna be his friend on "hold" whenever he needs a pal at the bar or something.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dont contact him anymore
let him contact you
it weeds out if he wants to be friends or not
 
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fuzzx said:
What did one lesbian say to the other lesbian?

Les B Friends...

hahah :)
I couldn't think of anything else to write.
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lol



Dude like someone said if hes a good friend he will contact you. I had the same situation happen. I was actually friends with some dude for about the same time and he basically stopped hanging out with me cause of some chick. So I said f*ck it we stopped talking. Last I heard was he got some other chick. So whatever I stopped talking to him. I admit it hurts inside for awhile but you learn friends are temporary. and that theres more friends in the world.
 
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