"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do you deal with a friend who takes you for granted

Ryan69

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How would you deal with a wingman/longtime friend who has met a girl and changed ? He IMO takes me for granted only wanting me around whenever he needs a wingman or something.

Tough just letting a friendship of 12 years go down the drain. The guy just thinks Im gonna be his friend on "hold" whenever he needs a pal at the bar or something.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SayWord?

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dont contact him anymore
let him contact you
it weeds out if he wants to be friends or not
 

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fuzzx said:
What did one lesbian say to the other lesbian?

Les B Friends...

hahah :)
I couldn't think of anything else to write.

lol



Dude like someone said if hes a good friend he will contact you. I had the same situation happen. I was actually friends with some dude for about the same time and he basically stopped hanging out with me cause of some chick. So I said f*ck it we stopped talking. Last I heard was he got some other chick. So whatever I stopped talking to him. I admit it hurts inside for awhile but you learn friends are temporary. and that theres more friends in the world.
 
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