I'm the average looking guy you can meet in the street on the average day. My whole life I was dating Plain Jane looking girls ranging from 5 to 7 if I was lucky. Last year somehow I met randomly a girl that was veryyyyy beatiful and hot. Worked as a model(even hotter than the girls you see on TV as models) and then noticed she was checking me out in party. At first I was like, what the hell she's actually checking me out, so I approached, said some random bull**** that made no sense and ended up having sex with her and dating her.We ended up in a relationship that lasted around a year and a half. Thing is even though I have been over her completely I cannot help but be nostalgic about how lucky I was at the time. I mean women usually go for guys better than them(at least according to what people say online), yet I ended up with her and she had sooooo many options. Dating a woman that high on the ladder is a complete life changer. I was used to be let free into clubs(sometimes VIP section), free drinks and even met many club owners. Respect from other men and had like 50 women in my inbox messaging me and trying to steal me away from her(some of them even my friend's gfs). All of this disappeared the moment we broke up. Even all these girls hitting on me suddently were gone,lol.
Also, I have been dating again women but they really don't do it for me. I really feel that I'm missing out when I date average women in my league. And I compare them to my ex subconsiously and find them wayyy low compared to her. Kinda like I'm entitled to girls in my ex's league and that going for less attractive girls feels like settling for less....Anyone has that thing happened to them? Dating a woman wayyyy above your league and then returning back to normal? If yes or if not, I'd like to listen to advice.
(P.S. I'm also an intellectual type of guy and can get fascinated with a girl that has a magnifiscent personality, but I don't meet any of those sadly).
Also, I have been dating again women but they really don't do it for me. I really feel that I'm missing out when I date average women in my league. And I compare them to my ex subconsiously and find them wayyy low compared to her. Kinda like I'm entitled to girls in my ex's league and that going for less attractive girls feels like settling for less....Anyone has that thing happened to them? Dating a woman wayyyy above your league and then returning back to normal? If yes or if not, I'd like to listen to advice.
(P.S. I'm also an intellectual type of guy and can get fascinated with a girl that has a magnifiscent personality, but I don't meet any of those sadly).
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