"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ItsOnNow said:
I'm not a nice guy, as described as the validation seeking,ass kissing, human doormat type, I'm more a regular guy. As for alpha, it seems some guys already are. you either are or not.

I have trouble valuing myself, I am trying to get over it. I am trying to figure out how too.

I am trying to work up the action/initiative to aproach and get in the field.

It's like I am trying to find that fine tuned way of going for it.
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You are not a regular guy. If you were a regular guy, you would have taken my advice. I am not here to act as a guru. When I truly feel like helping someone, I give my most heartfelt advice.

Get out of your head, you cannot do a perfect approach the first time. you need to take it inch by inch, small chunks at a time.

I am not going to argue or motivate you any further. Maybe no one else will either. YOU are the ONLY person that can help yourself right now.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know. I have been trying to help myself. But something is and has been holding me back. I haven't started, even since I first found this site years ago, to do it all little by little and improve myself. That's why I feel so behind.
 
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Imagine her in her underwear... wait...
 
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